Jillian’s voice is so soothing — I’m genuinely so grateful to have found her podcast. I recently picked up her book as well, and it’s been such a game-changer. She’s helped me view my relationships, and my part in them, from a whole new perspective. After going through a really tough heartbreak, her episodes helped me process and heal. I truly feel like I’ve grown so much because of her guidance.

Why are subscriber episodes literally 12 or 15 minutes long please put the same amount of effort into those episodes as well. Because after you take into account the ads you’re really short changing us and I paid for an annual subscription and I’m not happy.

I look forward to every episode snd have learned so much. Her book is amazing. Grateful I found discovered her work.

This podcast has been helping me through so much. I just wish there was a way to ask her questions. I have one. And it’s difficult….

Pretty good content but there are way way way too many ads.

One of the best relationship podcasts I have ever listened to! Jillian’s knowledge on the subject leaves you feeling supported and hopeful for the future! 10/10

Wonderful insights and ways to explore ourselves, identify patterns, and embrace new actions. Thanks!

Jillian!!!!! This podcast is EVERYTHING. I was healed from previous relationship heart break when I first started listening to Jillian. I love her calm, soothing voice. It really relaxes me. I started listening to Jillian throughout my dating experiences and all the episodes have been so insightful and refreshing. I have learned so much about myself and also about different perspectives on certain topics whether in regards to dating, love, self care, self love. As I was going through 2 rough situation-ships and the heartbreaks from those relationships, I tuned back into Jillian and became a subscriber (after listening to all her free episodes, I had to!) and honestly, I am so grateful for this podcast. I feel like it has helped me in my healing journey. I look forward to listening to a new podcast everyday. It keeps me SANE. Thank you, Jillian. You’re incredible and I want you to know that what you’re doing is truly transforming us and shaping us into better human beings 🩷🩷🩷🩷🙌🏽. P.s., don’t forget to purchase her new book! 📕

Jillian is one of my fave people to follow on ig and her podcast has really helped me on my healing journey. I highly recommend this podcast and can’t wait to read her new book.

Last relationship podcast you will ever need. Thank you so much Jillian.

January 6th episode was marriage for 17 years!!! Thank you for this work

I am not one to exaggerate or gush over anything. I cannot overstate how valuable these podcasts and Jillian’s insight are. I have learned so much about myself and my behavior and feel more empowered and at peace as a result. At the end of each episode she says you never know whose life you could be changing by sharing this episode and by sharing these episodes with me my friend changed my life. I don’t think I’d have understood myself enough to leave a toxic relationship without what I learned from Jillian. This podcast is incredibly valuable to me. The fact that I feel like Jillian is talking specifically about me shows how prevalent these patterns must be and how widely applicable her content is. Highly recommend to all.

I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you and everything you’re doing for the community. I found you probably a year and a half ago. I went on in depth journey in 2008 for a few years to heal childhood trauma, which was the best thing I ever did. It’s a forever journey forever growing so I love listening to you whenever I have a gut feeling and I don’t know if I’m just being crazy or too hypervigilant. So I appreciate your show to shed light on topics that I’m always searching for answers. thank you thank you thank you I can’t thank you enough for all that you do.

If only I had found Jillian a decade ago (or decades). Giving precise language for these abstract emotional concepts has made them tangible. When you can identify and name something.. you can become aware and intentional in your own engagement and healing. Jillian you are a special gem! Your wisdom and advice provokes major inner dialogues and sets the framework to begin long overdue healing. So grateful I found you!

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I really appreciate Jillian’s thoughts and advice. I’ve been following her content for awhile on IG and I’ve been enjoying her podcast now, too. I’d love to learn more about the differences between secure and insecure attachment. I’ve been scattered for a lot time but feel a shift towards secure, in some cases, and really want to keep working on it. Either way, thank you for all of your help already!

I started following Jillian on Instagram…and then just heard about her book (pre-ordered already) and started listening to the podcast. Such incredible insights on relationship dynamics and how to show up better for yourself, which of course flows into being a stronger partner. I think I’m only three episodes in, and have already share an episode with my bestie and asked my boyfriend to listen to a clip with me. Thank you, Jillian for sharing your gifts and intelligence with the world. Cannot wait to listen to your audiobook in January.

Jillian speaks to and explains my relationship experiences more clearly and specifically than any dating podcast I’ve found. She’s given me answers, understanding, and so much relief. And her voice is very grounding and soothing.

I drive a delivery truck, and I listen to you in between stops. You have helped me so much, to bring better clarity to my situation, my inner reality, and the cycles that I have been caught up in. I am getting better every day with your help, and I can’t thank you enough. 🫶🏻

I cling onto everything Jillian says. It’s so unbelievably helpful and life saving. Like she says “choosing the one you’re going to be with for the rest of your life is the most important decision”!! You have saved me from a lot of red flags and validated so many of my feelings. Thank you for this podcast, for your instagram, and for Substacks!!🧡🧡🧡

What a gift of an episode! In less than an hour, you accomplished what countless hours of therapy haven't. This could be a life changer for me, and not just in my romantic relationships. I am experiencing a lot of regret as I think about past relationships and realize that I was much more of the “problem” than I would like to admit. There is so much to think about and work to put into practice. Thank you so much!!

The content of what she covers is spot on. But the way she speaks in fragments and round about sentences, it’s hard to follow which person she’s talking about or what her real point is. There’s also very little practical advice that you can actually use. I guess this is good for people who have no clue about relationship dynamics if they can follow her train of thought. I’m disappointed because her short form content on Instagram is so much more clear and useful.

I learned so much through her detailed accounts of situations/conversations that she worked through with her husband. There’s so much information out there about communication etc in marriage but not so much specific examples of what that communication actually looks like day to day. LOVED this episode. ❤️

Wow! She is on point with the lessons learned during this podcast. I will be purchasing her new book. She uses wise information that walks you through gently and advises you to be kind to your partner even when considering break up but when doing so, looking at yourself and everyone’s habits as well. This podcast helps me become more attuned to my own needs, partner’s needs and look deeply at myself and partner before reacting. Definitely recommend!

I wish I'd known Jillian years ago! She would have saved me a lot of heartache. I recommend this podcast to everyone I know. So much wisdom and her voice is calm and soothing.

Hi Jillian, I listened to your podcast this morning, like I always do on the way to work on Mondays. I’ve been listening to it for a very long time. I realized how much it means to me. It feels like a hug from a big sister I never had. I appreciate how you deliver your wisdom: in a gentle, loving but also sturdy way. You are not afraid to be the one to hold a mirror for someone else. But also it’s never about “I’ll show you what’s wrong with you” but rather “let’s explore”. I’ve been with JOL for long enough to see how you have transformed as a podcast host as well. I can only imagine how much effort it takes to produce a podcast on such a delicate topic that is relationships. Thank you and your team for giving me a chance to learn more about myself every week.

I just want to say thank you for everything! So helpful . I’m learning so much about myself.

Julian has changed my life for the better, thank you for your work and dedication and for bringing this podcast together I refer people men and women all the time if you can't afford therapy this is the next best option truly she has so much insight and she breaks it down and makes you feel like you are in the same room with her I’m so grateful to have found her on IG thank you Julian so much for changing my life!

Jillian covers topics that are so relatable that you feel like she’s talking directly to you. She has genuinely helped me heal.

Amazing and insightful podcast about our relationship with others (and our self)!

Jillian advice and knowledge makes a lot of sense. I just love her realistic and simple language. She has helped me a lot with my dating life and personal development. Thank you Jillian for all that you do 🤍

I think the best dating and relationship podcast out there right now. Jillian is so smart, real, raw, compassionate. She hits exactly what I’m thinking. She’s helped me while both single and in a relationship. Keep them coming!!

Will listen to all the free episodes and once I’m done I’ll pay for the subscription ones! She is amazing, great content and reflections.

This is my all time favorite Episode of Jillian On Love. She absolutely nails it and addresses the key ingredients for any healthy couple, to strive for and hold as a beacon. I felt so seen and heard in the addressing of partners leaving during crises- especially illness. It is one of the hardest betrayals to live through, especially if you’ve been promised the moon. I really appreciate this hard look at these types of betrayals and how to stead clear of being damaged from them and healing for the next relationship. What a brilliant council this woman is and her clarity and way of speaking is mesmerizing.

Appreciate this podcast, great info, and a little cringe at times when Jillian says things like, “you want to deal with this before your 40s” or “your 20s are a time to get through this stuff…”. We are all on different timetables based on our backgrounds. If you are older reading this review, let go of any shame or comparison about at what age you started waking up. Much of this info wasn’t as readily accessible years ago - keep on growing, no matter your age.

Jillian’s content resonates with me more than anyone else’s content out there talking about the same topics. She is empathetic, caring, kind, honest and realistic about things. She’s able to communicate concepts that really hit home and make you think about them afterwards. It’s brought me a lot of clarity and insight. Thank you Jillian!

I’ve been following Jillian on Instagram for long time now, and I have devoured this podcast. This is all such excellent advice, particularly for people with sensitive nervous systems like myself. I have implemented a lot of her advice especially in regards to mind body connection and taking personal responsibility and I have noticed a huge difference in my approach to dating. This has been a great tool for me as I have re-entered the dating world and gives plenty of action based/highly applicable advice.

This podcast is my favorite. I don’t miss a one.

This podcast series is so helpful. It’s calming and speaks directly to real-life scenarios that I am going through with a loved one. I highly recommend this podcast series and be prepared to walk away with both work to do on yourself and healing to begin.

Just listened to the episode on how to love someone without tolerating less than you deserve. The light bulb moments were plentiful. I think if you have a shred of self awareness Jillian’s podcast can take you from good to great. Also it may humble you like it did me… I’m in the throes of heartbreak and somehow seeing what I am choosing, what I thought I could tolerate (but clearly wasn’t- by my actions) was beautiful and awful. Acceptance is the first step I think- scratch that, awareness is! And I found it here…. Now to work on acceptance…

This really helped me as I have an anxious attachment style and going through a breakup. I follow any of these important deal breakers or boundaries in my relationships and failed to see the red flags in the beginning. Hence, stayed longer than I should have as it was such an unhealthy relationship due to lack of communication and needs. I hope this really sticks with me when I do get back into the dating scene. Thank you so much for always giving amazing advice which had really helped me work on. Michelle

I’m love her podcast very enjoyable her straightforward talk tell as it. Love!!!

Absolutely loved and enjoyed the last episode with Jeff Guenther “How To Detect Unhealthy Chemistry…” so fun to listen to and such great advice from both of you! Thank you for this episode. Now a TherapyJeff fan.

Great show and I’ve got a lot out of it but every ten minutes or so there is a long ad that really takes you out out of the discussion. When trying to get ready for bed and listen all I hear is ads, it’s sad because I would listen more but there are just too many for me to actually enjoy the show…

Great content. Agree with the other comment about episodes being behind a paywall. To bad:(

Why are all the “good” episodes now only behind a paywall? I’ve been following and listening to Jillian for years. Now I’m realizing a lot of the good episodes you’d actually want to listen to are for subscribers only. That’s what sponsorships are for and there’s already a ton within a single episode. I’m to the point of being over this podcast.

Jillian has helped transform my life. I highly recommend the membership for the additional content on the podcast. I can’t get enough of her content. She is truly amazing. Thank you so much, Jillian.

A mentor shared this podcast with me while supporting me through a difficult period of intense heartache and anxiety in my committed partnership. Jillian’s work has been immensely helpful, and I have learned so much that I wish I had learned sooner in life. She provides simple language to complex emotions and thoroughly explains nuances that are easy to misunderstand. Listening and learning has helped me feel so validated, while also motivated and empowered to address the root causes of the problems in my relationship. Thank you, Jillian!

Love this podcast and how kind, soft and wise Jillian is. Helped me in many moments, very interesting content.

Thank you Jillian for sharing your knowledge in such a way that it is easy to understand. It allows me to articulate more clearly my relational experiences & truly consider the possible root causes. I can’t recommend your podcast enough!