The handbook review episode is one of my favorites in a long time. Thank you!!!

Idk, as a 31 year old woman, I still hear excuses for men’s bad behavior HEAVY on this podcast. But I think they’re a bit older, and honestly “progressive for their age”. I like this podcast… because women have been conditioned to accept less and it’s obvious the placating of men’s feelings is valued here as well. Which is disappointing, but I may be asking too much. This is still a good podcast, you just have to take it with a grain of salt if you’re a feminist. Interesting info though *everything is sociology to me 🤷‍♀️

I have always adored this podcast and FDS but am loving the new hosts and content. I’m especially excited that Diana is South-Asian and talks about South-Asian cultural issues because I am Indian-American and this is the content I want!!! I so rarely find these issues discussed in feminist circles that it’s really refreshing. Both the hosts do a great job and the dynamic between them is enjoyable to listen to. Highly recommend this podcast to any woman looking to improve her life, protect herself from degenerate men, and uplift her sisters 💪🏾

Would give it 0 stars tbh. Like Rush Limbaugh level of hate to minorities, but from self hating women! I thought female incels were only on Reddit, boy was I wrong. A pod about women who hate themselves for women who hate themselves.

I do not understand how this guest host got through the first round. She was so pretentious and obnoxious and gave terrible advice. She sounds like a terrible friend and the way she gave opinions on so many topics that she clearly has no personal knowledge of was infuriating. Her repeated use of the word “girlie” made me just have to skip the whole middle of the episode. The rest of the podcast is entertaining and fairly useful.

It’s like having a coffee with your girlfriends, except everyone is that one friend who always turns out to be right about that sus dude you’re dating, (because they’ve been there), and then eventually you become that friend who can spot red flags from a mile away, too.

Really good advice but missing critical information. Please interview Tina Swithin of One Mom's Battle and Dr Christine Cocchiola. Men know this information and women need to catch up, because without this knowledge no amount of vetting will protect you.

And now I have an amazing new podcast addiction! Laughing my head off at the roast-a-scepter segments….. more more more more more please! Going to try to get my daughter to listen to this to keep her standards high before she makes some of the mistakes us older women have already made to our shame. Love you and keep up the good work.

I’m been doing more listening, and I really like the content. Good stuff and a must listen for all women. Die mad, scrotes

Thank you for platforming Dr. Gail Dines! Queens!!! Consistently thoughtful, funny with spot-on takes!

I thought it was going to be about strategy but was super disappointed.

Topics used to be more interesting and actually related to FDS. I really liked the episodes where they had guests on. It’s evolved to be more of a general topics podcast and I could not care less about reality tv or the career series they’ve started. The energy is also very unbalanced with the departure of Lilith.

Incredible that a show that discusses biological differences between men and women uses the term “TERF” to describe other women who believe the same. That’s some seriously embarrassing pickmeism coming from you ladies. I can’t believe a feminist acquaintance suggested someone without a spine :/.

When I started listening to the show I loved the interviews they’d do, such as Lundy Bancroft and Gail Dines. Since then, it seems the show has really devolved in terms of quality. Many of the takes are uninformed rambling—with things getting as bad as one of the hosts referring to AI as “A One”. And then there’s the casual transphobia. It seems there’s also more complaining about men than actual useful advice or “dating strategy”. It’s sad, because there’s a lot of potential, and the hosts can be entertaining to listen to, but it really feels they run short on material sometimes and rather than spending real research time on interesting subjects just go on off-the-cuff rants… and again, the transphobia is just needless and cringey, and makes it come off like a podcast for fringe redditors.

It’s so great to hear the hosts speaking so candidly.

On behalf of adult human females

Your information is undermined by repeated instances of anti black racism, and yes I am aware one of the hosts is of African descent.

Hilarious podcast episodes, informative topics from psychology to sexual. Calls out scrotes!! Guest speakers vary and bring knowledge to each episode. I will be subscribing to the patreon. Die mad scrotes!

These women are the only few I’ve seen daring to speak truths—and we’re talking medically and scientifically substantiated facts— about the nature of misogyny. The issue these brave women face is the exponential spread of misinformation in the TikTok generation, which strives more for likes through cultish adherence to something they saw on social media than for survival skills like critical thinking. If you’re ready to break out of mindlessness and fear-based reaction, this is a great place to start.

This podcast has some great episodes: interviews with Gail Dines and Lundy Bancroft, important critiques of the porn industry, critiques of abuse kinks and sex posi culture, strategy on where to meet decent men and how to be vigilant for red flags, how to make friends, etc. But as the episodes have gone on, there is less and less interesting or useful information, and more and more blatant homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, classism, and just general punching down. It’s one thing to say something that could be potentially controversial that has important truths to it (for example, pointing out some gay men are extremely misogynistic is a very valid conversation that needs to be had, etc); however, that is not the case here. The “advice” episodes regarding men in prison, homeless men, etc, don’t have any useful information - in fact they’re full of misinformation/hosts’ anecdotes, but beyond being hateful and seeming very Rush Limbaugh, they’re just boring and don’t contain helpful or useful information for women. Reaux in particular is extremely annoying and I don’t find her contributions to be interesting at all. Very disappointing as I used to really enjoy the hosts banter and FDS in general, but between the downhill turn the podcast has taken and the FDS website content, FDS is starting to live up to its reputation as a hate group (and I’m not saying a hate group towards men, I’m saying a hate group towards specifically gay men, all trans people, all fat people, ugly/less attractive people, disabled people, poor people, etc).

🤮🤮 great way to teach women how to die along

Ranges from commodifying and dehumanizing men to viciously bullying them. They have nothing of value to say. They just enjoy being mean.

what you’ve already known to be true… articulated, curated. Universal truths that ruffle feathers. It’s agitating for men when their junk capsizes. For women…who knew this stuff inherently but played along, it’s embarrassing. Upsetting the voyeurs. They’re not going away and we’re here for it 😁.

I like to get the female perspective on the current dating scene, reinforces my desire to NEVER settle or lower my completely reasonable standards. Thanks Queens! I’d also like to tune into The Red Pill podcast to be aware of what scote’s views are so I can avoid them… women in the dating “game” should listen to both.

Truth that you’ve never heard but always knew. Enjoy…

I tripped into FDS a few months ago and really enjoyed it at first. So I decided to listen to every episode starting with the first. I really want to like and support this project but their commitment to biological determinism is deeply unsettling and problematic. But they lost me with their episode on why they’re leaving Reddit (totally support because that hellsite is horrific). To put it bluntly, the trans misogyny horrified me. I noticed it again with some of their most recent episodes. As someone who believes in liberation for ALL people including trans folk, I can’t support this project anymore. Very much a ‘don’t throw the baby out with the bath water’ type situation- which, it is hard not to be reactive- considering the bath water is FILTHY. Super disappointed.

This podcast articulated everything my intuition was telling me. These ICONIC QUEENS have changed my life and validated so much of my experience. The wool is removed from my eyes and everywhere I see things a new and I’m not putting up with that old patriarchy, capitalist, oppressive way of moving through the world. Thank you for making this podcast. I only wish I had found it sooner but now I am evangelizing to every woman I know. New clique of ALL women to never accept the minimum or lower standards from men. DEFUND MEN.

Really fantastic conversations. Wonderful, diverse set of hosts who take a deep dive on some important topics and tackle misogyny, leveling up, and navigating challenges. All the one star ratings see from incels.

This is a great podcast with memorable topics and great advice

What a bunch of clownery. So the subreddit is private, goodbye to thousands of informative posts, WITH NO WARNING, but they still use those posts, that HUNDREDS OF WOMEN WROTE, for podcast content. They still post a link to the subreddit in their podcast, but there’s no way to access the information because the sub is PRIVATE. So you’ll use the free labor of other women, but make it inaccessible to other women? How is that ethical? 🤔 Clownery. 🤡🤡🤡🤡 Yes I am referring to the most recent episode where they talk about withdrawing, published May 18th 2022.

I really tried to give them a chance but I found myself facepalming so many times with their absolutely immature take on things. I have no idea how old they are but some of the stories and opinions feel so childish. The British woman seems to have the best takes but rarely gets a chance to speak and now she hasn’t been on the recent episodes. Some of the concepts are good about not settling for less in men and seeing the red flags early on but once you have that concept there really isn’t much more substance.

It’s basically a guide on how to have self-esteem so high that the “scrotes” leave angry reviews because they can’t date you. Every time I catch myself staying on a date I don’t want to be on I think of this podcast and remember I don’t need a good-enough reason to leave and I don’t have to apologize or feel like I owe him something.

They are a group of deranged energies.

I love this podcast. Helps reinforce behaviors that help women combat low to negative value men! I feel better about myself and feel more confident in my intuition relating to dating and relationships.

These ladies are fabulous! I absolutely love them! They are smart, witty, researched, and have thought-provoking guests. All of the FDS advice is nearly identical to what my grandma taught me. LibFems have been screaming in everyone’s ear for so long, we’ve lost touch with how women of past generations were telling us how to vet men. It’s funny that so many men get upset about women vetting and having standards even though it’s been happening since men and women existed.

These ladies are so smart, funny, and strong. They’ve also had some impressive guests. I love that they release weekly content, and they have great studio voices! I could listen to them talk for days.

It’s a sad state of existence.

As a young woman fed up with today’s dating culture, it’s so refreshing to listen to like-minded women. I love that they approach dating from a feminist perspective that’s ACTUALLY feminist and not B.S. libfem “empowerment” garbage that isn’t even beneficial to women. I can feel my brain expanding with each episode.

I first found the Reddit page and then found the podcast. I love the podcast so much because it’s all the amazing FDS content plus no evil bitter Reddit scrotes bringing their negative energy. FDS is about gaining confidence as a heterosexual woman dating men in an extremely patriarchal and misogynistic dating scene. Liberal mainstream media is feeding us the routine to be a man’s door mat, FDS is teaching us to keep our standards high and get ruthlessly bc our lives and safety (and our children’s if we choose to have them) are at stake whenever we deal with a man.

I found this podcast only yesterday & the banter between Savannah, Reoux & Lilith is some of the most concise & funniest I’ve come across on this dual feminist-dating genre. The topics covered in-depth is so illuminating & I’m just so happy to listen to a dynamic trio who share similar feminist views as me!! Thanks a lot ladies, keep on educating women.

Love when women can be honest. Men don’t walk around our feelings and we shouldn’t either.

I love this podcast! It’s hilarious and a real eye opener for most women out there. I’d like to make a distinction between the type of feminism that this podcast preaches as opposed to liberal feminism: it doesn’t teach you to disrespect yourself by just going through life giving sex to men without vetting and without thinking about the several consequences in various aspects that come/might come with it. This is Empowering Feminism, designed to protect us women from potential bad experiences, saving us tons of time, energy, youthfulness, stress and resources. Essentially, it is like a great course on investing: before putting your money on a stock, you must read its fundamentals, study the company, check its financial reports, check if they are not scammers, check that it is not a penny stock, etc. After that thorough vetting, only then you decide to invest in that stock. The same rules apply with FDS but with dating men. This time you go though a rigorous vetting process before you invest time, emotions, energy, etc on a man. It teaches you to “completely avoid loses”, or “cut your loses early” if the man is showing early signs of LV / NV (a.k.a. Low value men/ no value men). It teaches you to recognize a HVM (high value man), who will treat you with respect, which is not the same as men’s definition of HVM. Men’s definition of HV is who is most successful at sleeping with as many women as possible.

I take pity on these women. They make sweeping generalizations about men that are clearly based on their own relationships. The podcast is infantile and wholly unlistenable, in fact if it wasn’t for Kaya and mean Doug I wouldn’t have bothered. It saddens me that they will die alone, never having experienced mutual love with a partner. One star.

Just want to reiterate that being black /= hood or ghetto . Black people are NOT the reason a non-black person who grew up in poverty acts a certain way. Associating poverty, the ghetto and hood to blackness is weird . I blame rap music but still. Otherwise I usually love the podcast. Not sure if anybody else felt kind of weird about some of the things said or not. I know it may not have been the intent but that’s just what I picked up. But who knows

A must listen for ALL women!

I want to start by saying that I’m a guy, so my opinions really aren’t all that needed here, but I love this podcast! The Roast a Scrot segments have crying with laughter, while also hurting deeply for women who have been subjected to these ogres. I look forward to the new episode each week with anticipation! Good job Queens! Keep lifting all of your sisters up!

these three took what millions / generations were to dumb blind / lame to say. SAID IT. absolute truths,,, better your life & listen up.

I guess this is the version of the incel thing for women? Teaches you how to become a sociopath, using your love life to manipulate people and “get ahead”. Terrible sexist terms abound, both to degrade men seen as low value by these clowns, but also to women they don’t deem good enough. Just bad, bad people

It’s an extremely sexist show. It just gets a pass because they’re women.

Love them. So good