I’ve been watching Real Housewives of DC and am dying to hear Dylan’s thoughts, especially as they delve into gay marriage rights. Such a time capsule.

I don’t know how but your interview with Jesse from the Valley actually made me like him??? great job, as always.

With only one of my friends as interested in these pop culture topics, this podcast is so enjoyable! I even go back and listen to some episodes several times until the next one comes out 👏 loving the coverage on summer house and NYC prep!!

I’ve listened for awhile and I’m currently listening FROM THE BEGINNING just to get my daily dose! Episodes are concise and on point - keep it up! Also, remember “Southern Belles” that was filmed in Louisville KY? Clearly not vault material haha

The podcast description will say something about VPR/The Valley and then Dylan talks about everything but the subject until the end. I come to hear the VPR/Valley commentary and it’s lacking. Plus, he takes long pauses that when I first started listening, I would wonder if it stopped playing. No. He just paused (which is fine; just don’t make it so long). Does he not have notes or his thoughts gathered together before he starts? It’s honestly just a filler for me until the podcast I want to hear are released. If he could get these things together, it would be greatly improved.

He needs a co-host because he’s choppy and it’s not the easiest to listen to… I keep wanting to say “SPIT IT OUT”. I love his hot takes so I listen but I can’t binge unless he’s got a guest. It’s unfortunate that his team isn’t telling him how choppy his speech pattern is… my gawd, the pauses feel like forever…

Dylan, pleaaaaase do some recaps of Shahs of Sunset. It was such an underrated show. I dream of world in which it comes back to Bravo.

Love the show! Would love for Dylan to do some recaps of some of the Bravo Vault..just watched Tamra’s OC Wedding and it was a journey..

Please.

I would typically not like some of his commentary on marriage, divorce, career choices when it comes to the housewives…but just that he clearly got digs in about Jax and Brits questions over their son’s situation just took me over the edge..for a child himself who has these opinions is gross when you watch tv have never been married to get divorced and dont have a human your responsible for. I would much rather listen to old queens who know like Ronnie and Ben.

Thank you for talking about Top Chef! I love all your recaps Dylan, you’re amazing!

Would love for you to do more season 1 recaps — those were such fun bonus episodes when you did VPR and RHONY. I would die for season 1 RHOC or Southern Charm or really anything. Please please please!!!!

Dylan is the peak of pod hosts, y’all! Would love to hear his takes on this season of Top Chef 🙏🏼

Loved listening to Dylan and Nicola talk all things Bravo! More celebrities being a fangirl over Bravo please! Love you Dylan! ❤️

I'm a Bravo addict but was getting bored with the same old Bravo podcasts. I’ve listened to them ALL. I'm so happy I found this one! It's great hearing a fresh perspective on my favorite bravolebrities. Funny & opinionated, just how I like it! Dylan is a rare human who can podcast alone & make it make sense. THAT’s my opinion.

Please cover Top Chef - I loved your coverage of it in the past and I think that’s what hooked me to your podcast to begin with! Love housewives, VPR, top chef Would like below deck but don’t care about all the summer/winter houses - those are my thoughts and thanks for your fun podcast!

This is one of my favorite podcasts! I love Dylan’s insight and his questions to the guests are always perfect. Love guests you have on especially the most recent Camp Counselors! We love Zachariah and Jonathan!

Dylan! What happened to #KatieMaloney audio? Katie you sounded like a pre-pubescent teenager. Your voice was all over the place. Too distracting to understand what you’re talking about, had to turn it off. Sorry Dylan.

Love listening to Dylan! Feels like I’m with a friend discussing all things bravo! Also love with Samantha Bush comes on!

Just canceled out the last one. Dorit is terrible

It’s kind of like a Pavlov’s dog scenario at this point. I hear the intro music and the first few syllables of whatever Dylan’s launching into, and I’m in “Ooo this’s gonna be good” mode. For a short time, even chipper let’s say. Today? I may or may not have just had a mini parade in my head over the sheer brilliance of Dylan’s: MJ —->BH. Especially love the Crystal/MJ. Dylan, sir, thank you for your service.

Always waiting for the next episode! Dylan makes me laugh out loud on my hot lady walks. Although we don’t always agree, I still enjoy his point of view. Mention It All is a definite favorite!

Dylan’s take always gets me laughing! I love a good solo episode to just hear his thoughts, great entertainment for a Bravo fan!

All he does is recap. Doesn’t add anything extra. Says “like” too much. Boring. Basic. Don’t waste your time unless you’re looking to turn something on to fall asleep to.

I totally disagree with your take on Dorit bringing up antisemitism and racism similarities as Dorit was trying to explain it to Garcelle. There are huge similarities in the plight of both of these races. Yes being Jewish is not just a religion , it is also an ethnicity. And yes it has been one , and currently is one, that is attacked , marginalized, called for death, gas chambers , and total annihilation. Yes , Dorit should be explaining, in that very conversation, how she wouldn’t want to hurt Garcelle on purpose because she gets some part of racism by way of experiencing antisemitism. People that are marginalized and suppressed and wished to be destroyed by others , can all relate and we all need to be educated how it’s wrong throughout all the people. I’m sure you can think about it in your possible experiences and understand that. If not, then give Dorit grace that she at least, understands how she relates.

Love your show and Love when I get to hear from Samantha Bush!

The number of times LIKE is used on this is unlistenable.

I love Dylan and the show, even the solo episodes. But on behalf of the entire advance practice nursing community, PLEASE don’t give Annemarie anymore attention! Esophagus-gate needs to END!

I loved listening to this podcast back when Dylan would consistently recap all the RH shows and bring on guests providing different insights. Unfortunately this podcast is now a snooze, where Dylan spends most episodes giving softball interviews to different Bravolebs. I understand he’s no Andy Cohen and is likely limited to what questions he can ask, but can the interviews be more than 20 minutes or have any substance? Or can he at least record additional episodes to make sure he’s fairly covering all the franchises?! This podcast isn’t what it once was. Bring back more consistency and better content before your audience completely loses interest.

I can’t agree more with Dylan about this ‘full time housewife’ whom has been in 3 episodes. She’s horrible and the producer should be fired. I NEVER write in but this has jumped the shark! As far as ‘mention it all’ goes- I love Dylan’s commentary and have been a long time follower. I was so happy to see him on WWHL! Congrats

This podcast is fun and entertaining when there are guests for Dylan to converse with about all things Bravo. The solo episodes fall flat and I usually skip them.

Love Betches, love Dylan, love housewives, so this podcast is a big win for me. I do have a little bit of a hard time with the solo eps though. They’re always good, but just less engaging than a conversation between two people and sometimes my mind trails off to something else. I’m gonna listen no matter what, but just some feedback from a loyal listener!

Dylan has really good takes on the Housewives that I appreciate. I especially enjoyed his year in review episode for 2023.

Love listening to Dylan-he says in 30-45 minutes what takes other podcasters hours-he respects our time and I always laugh!

Love you Dylan, my dream job would be to be your Bravo podcasting partner for this show! I get the feeling you would like someone to bounce ideas off. Love you!

Great content but hard to listen to the solo episodes which have been very frequent lately. The topics that come up on these bravo shows require dialogue/a discussion not just a solo ramble of thoughts. I don’t really want to listen to someone just talk to themselves and sometimes go back an forth with themselves. It’s painful. Something to consider in the next year perhaps?

Dylan, I honestly love you! But every time I tune in to listen and hope for a great recap, you seem tired, annoyed, bothered, and unenthusiastic. It seems like you hate doing these recaps! These should be fun! Most recaps feel like you don’t even enjoy Bravo. There’s no passion or enthusiasm or even strong opinions. You seem annoyed to be there. Podcasting about bravo would be a dream job for me! If you hate this so much, can you pass this part of Betches work onto someone who will do it with some joy and heart?!?! Please!!!!

It just hit me why I allow this poscast to annoy me. A man in his 20’s or 30’s is analyzing the lives of women. You don’t know what’s it’s like to be a woman navigating life along with relationships, marriages, careers, children or societal expectations. It’s annoying to hear men pretend to know or understand the lives of women.

I listen to all your episodes on my drive to work and impatiently await them so I can feel like I’m chatting w my bestie to recap thoughts of RH thoughts bc you are ALWAYS on point! I also love your interview style. Only feedback is that you’re sleeping on Married to Medicine!! It is top tier and I need you to start recapping every so often! Decided to finally write my 5 star review after your Cher “churn back time” song :) You're the best! Keep it up!

In your recap of Sutton and Kyle‘s conversation, Sutton said she came to the realization that Kyle was not her good friend not Erika. And then when she was saying defend your friend, she was talking about Kyle defending her I think. It changes a whole conversation once you know, or realize what Sutton said in her confessional.

The way you sounded describing Vegas came off so snobby and pretentious. You clearly are no fun if that was your attitude being in Vegas.

Excellent synopsis of the VF article: It’s a complicated medium, the love and attention are addicting…

Dylan Hafer is good at what he does: talking about Bravo and being frank but not super rude, yet still sticking in some snark. I enjoy listening to him basically gossip. 😬

Please 🙏🏻

I have been listening to this pod for years & it has been consistently excellent. It’s like chatting up an old friend. I love it!

Love the pod always look forward to it.. wish for more recaps vs interviews w bravolebs.

Love this podcast and all the takes but first Venita and now Olivia? Two of the most boring people to be on reality tv. Guess I’ll use that episode for when I can’t fall asleep

Always loved this podcast but these two together are hysterical! Hope they collaborate often. A+++

Usually enjoy this podcast, but don’t understand how he and a cohost can discuss a podcast that he has not even listened to? If he had listen to the podcast and then had stuff to say, that would be one thing, but he hasn’t even listen to it so I’m not sure how he can review it? It seems lazy.

Listener from from the beginning days! I look forward to every episode and the hot goss that’s shared. Dylan’s incites are the best and so entertaining. Love his interviews with bravo-lebs and his weekly recaps ☺️