I love this episode and all you guys stand for ❤️

I fell off from listening to your guys podcast after ending a relationship that I never planned on ending. But I’m back and really enjoy the knowledge you guys bring to relationships. I might be single but I know what I don’t want to bring into my future relationships & the podcast definitely helps me out!

I am so glad I came across this podcast. This is the real and raw in terms of what comes with both dating and marriage. Not a lot of people want to talk about the “ugly and messy parts” and what it takes to take accountability and overcome but this couple does and it’s a lot of what I need to hear. Thank you for this podcast, being a person who has made mistakes and still learning to be a better individual in terms of relationships, I’m learning a lot and absorbing a lot. I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels like there is a little glimmer of hope in the rocky journey to happiness and love.

I’m so glad my wife and I found this podcast at the exact time we needed it the most. First ran across you guys on TikTok…now I’m hooked on all your content. Great stuff

This podcast has just re-affirmed what my husband has been trying to get me to realize, the “Do I Matter?” Podcast really had me thinking was I being valuable to my spouse, had I shown up for him in ways that helped sustained our relationship, was I loving him in his love language and I was/am lacking in a lot of areas of adding value to him and his life. I will definitely re-listen to this podcast and future ones from you two.

This episode had me in the floor I swear y’all are the younger version of my husband and I! Not only does my husband leave his clothes in the same way and cups and I’m so OCD like Asha and to this day 15 years of marriage I still don’t know what to call my mother n law! Lol it’s so awkward to me and I just start talking like y’all 😂 hilarious. 🤷🏽‍♀️

As a new listener to the podcast , I had found you guys on tiktok; just 3 weeks after breaking up with the lady who I presumed to be my wife, I’m currently 22 and my now ex is 21 so we’re young and were trying to figure out this whole relationship thing alone with no advice from anyone and we were slowing breaking each others without even knowing, losing ourselves, and not knowing how to handle certain situations the right way. But um listening to everything that you guys are saying and the advice that you guys are giving I wish I would’ve found you guys months ago because a lot of the words you're speaking and saying it’s giving me a big eye opener on my whole relationship because with us not knowing how to communicate and go through our hard times it forced up to break down and give up on each other not knowing how to navigate and grow together. We’ve both been through so many hardships in our relationship but never knew how to be there for each other the right way emotionally, physically and mentally it felt like it was tearing us apart. When we had good time they were so beautiful and bright but then when we had the storms we just broke down and didn’t know how to withstand it. I know everyone has their own battles and fights but I feel like if we had the right relationship advice months ago , I feel like it would’ve helped us stay strong together and work out everything that we were going through. Im appreciative of finding this podcast and I am forever going to tune in to better help myself mentally but also to help me gain advice and knowledge for my next relationship, whether if that’s getting back with my ex after no contact or with someone new. The advice will be used the right way. Much love from Columbus Ohio , stay safe and stay prayed up.

I’m a new listener and love the realness brought by this podcast! It definitely helps me see different perspectives on relationships and making great relationships last!!!

I have been with my husband for almost 18 years (married 5yrs) and you guys hit on all of the important topics on how to create and keep an everlasting marriage. One thing that I have learned throughout the years is that marriage is a true commitment that you have to constantly and consistently work on. But also knowing that there’s always more that we can do and work on to make things better. This podcast has allowed me to see both sides from completely different perspectives and has helped me understand what things I can work on. Thank you for allowing us to see the REAL and giving us the tools/conversation to get more out of our marriage. Keep doing what you’re doing!

There were an array of topics in there and i loved listening to the perspective. I will say that you guys are ppl amazon should continue to sell equipment to, not the sound bites of some of these jokers outchea. I love how you two are vulnerable enough to share YOU so others that truly want to learn can do so. I will keep listening

Listening to you guys has giving me a better depth of understanding relationship and marriage. Ive used some advice that you have in other episodes and has well for my spouse and I.

Asha and Devon do what they intend to with this podcast and they keep it real. They discuss the good, the difficult and the road to discovering strategies to navigate all of the above. They show up with their individual perspectives and role model their reverence to valuing autonomy, family and marriage.

This podcast definitely makes me think deeper into my relationship and past relationships. It made me realize how reckless I was living and how immature I was. Now moving forward, it has helped reconfigure how I look at relationships and intimacy as a whole. Even when it comes to having children. Thank you!

So much good relationship advice given in this podcast! Love the fact that they take the time to do research on topics and give proper facts to their listeners and keep it real. People pay for this information!

I just started listening to this podcast 8/16/22 starting from the bottom. I’m so glad I came a cross your podcast listening to the beginning I can relate 100% with The wife and they are funny

This podcast is truly on point! It’s raw, it’s real and it’s the truth! I swear they are changing the way I approach everything for the better!

This episode was everything I needed and more , I love you guys !!

I’ve been listening to this podcast for about 2 years. I can’t remember how I came across it but I’m glad I did. My partner and I come from upbringings that didn’t show what love liked like or relationships. After listening to almost all of your episodes, I share them with him so we can have a dialogue about them. I look up to you both for guidance and with my healing journey. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world and discussing topics most people can’t/ don’t/ won’t talk about.

I been looking for yallll! Omg I was so happy to get this notification. Happy to hear y’all back

I love this podcast I’ve had it in my library forever and I’m so happy I finally have time to listen and take on lessons and advice and apply what I can to my life. I’m so appreciative to hear from people I would consider a peer. Please bring back more and more episodes. I’m here to stay.

Love this podcast. You guys give a lot of great advice. I appreciate you two 💕

I’ve been hooked since yesterday listening to this podcast on my 12 hr shift in the hospital I’ve cried , laughed and related to my soul!!! Keep going and keep keeping it REAL!!! The peoples choice . Com !!!!

I have to say that this episode in particular spoke to my current life journey with my fiancée at this time. We started in what I would like to call an emotional shift of her finding what she has called/prayed for to God in a woman (in me) versus what she was accustomed to. I went through the trenches and emotional turbulence of trying to figure out or having the thoughts of not being enough and comparing to the woman she is accustomed to dating. She has made so many changes and has actively showed me through her actions that she is in this for the long hall. That she loves me and appreciates and values the woman the mother the partner I am, and Asha speaking on how she needed to get to a space of not throwing things back at you, but growing and coming from a healthier space when engaging in those conversations is something I’m learning to apply in my own relationship. Thank you for being vulnerable with us your listeners. We appreciate you both

Hello Devon & Asha. I have been listening to your podcast since you started making them & I have not missed one episode since. I binged listened to you through the whole pandemic because my relationship at the time was very rocky. You taught me many things. Once I started to apply your podcasts to my personal life, it changed for the better. One of them being committed to manipulation & financial stability. I was too afraid to leave because I didn’t think I could do it on my own. When I met him I lived on my own. 8 months later, the pandemic happened & my lease was up. I didn’t have enough money to move out on my own again. So we moved in together. He was very sweet in the beginning. But he eventually isolated me & would tell me everyday to quit my job & get pregnant. I said no. He got angrier through time until things got serious. Both physically & mentally. He also couldn’t stop cheating since we met. It took me a few tries. But I did the unthinkable & left him for good one day. I started working on myself 4 months ago. I couldn’t be prouder. I would listen to this podcast when I was cooking, running, driving or even walking to my next class. Your podcast touched me. I am 25 & single & the happiest I have ever been in my life. But I am also very open to end up in a healthy/loving relationship. Have my own place, pay my own bills & a have good job. I live in a beautiful city & I couldn’t have asked for the anything more ♥️ - you are right. I need to love me first. - Listening to this podcast has encouraged me to find god & create a better relationship with him. - I learned to trust the process. - I learned to trust god in my process. I am glad you guys are able to talk about different aspects of your marriage & how you guy can create a healthy environment; not only for yourselves but for your kids & everyone around you as well. I have never known how to write such a meaningful review but here you go. Keep up the great work. I follow on your episodes & videos almost everyday. Sometimes on repeat. Also, let us know how your gym journey is going. Would love to hear more about it.

I just love this couple❤️ I love the transparency and authenticity that y’all provide and I appreciate the time and love y’all put into helping others! This podcast is the BEST🙌

I loveee what you guys are doing, keeping couples together, giving them pointers and advice on how to get through the highs and lows. Showcasing the REAL and not the fairytale idea of the “perfect relationship”. I also love how you guys brush up on different topics from how to keep things spicy in your relationship to praying together. This podcast can be the first step to so many who aren’t ready to go to counseling with their significant other.

Originally came here for the Valentine’s Day dinner giveaway, but left here with some insightful gems I can apply to my own life. Definitely can’t wait to “binge listen” to the other episodes! Better late than never. Thank you for the great content, keep it up.

I honestly came on hear just because, but honestly after hearing the best advice on topics I thought I was alone in, I am HOOKED!! You hear me? Hooked. They keep it real and they hold back nothing. I wish more podcasts can go the extra mile without trying to look “cool” for clout!!

My friend who recently got married put me on to this podcast! I lost the message thread to the name of the podcast but i finally found it 🙌🏾 can’t wait to get home after work & catch up 💕

This podcast is AMAZING!! They give real practical advice and you also get to hear real life stories that you can relate to. Also, they’re funny and entertaining, all at the same time! I often listen while driving in the car. 10/10 ⭐️ definitely recommend!!!

Came across this podcast at a moment where let’s just say communication was distorted. Nothing but REAL topics with a beautiful married couple that bring serious/fun conversations to you !!

Just getting into podcasts and I love this one! 💕 Advice and encouragement.

I love your podcast I can listen while driving and the advice you all give for relationships is great even for people that are single as well no matter your status you will learn a lot from this podcast continue to keep the raw and real topics coming!!!!!

I truly enjoy listening! It’s nothing like hearing a couple discuss many of the same things you and your spouse are experiencing. Nothing like their realness and honesty! Claiming we can be on their podcast one day ;) but honestly, a great listen!

This was great and this really helped a lot!

I think this platform is a very healthy way to address conversations and issues that are not talked about in the household. Being a young black woman working and attending graduate school full-time, and being in a 2 year relationship is hard in general. I appreciate the time and effort that you two put into supporting other couples out there. Much love! #Vday

Honestly, this podcast is the truth. My husband and I both listen, sometimes together sometimes separately. This podcast will legit have me, laughing LOUD, but more so just relatable. They are hilarious! But as a nursing mom, a young wife, a young couple in general— this podcast is just so relatable and easy to hear out. I appreciate their transparency, I appreciate how they are God fearing, I appreciate their humor and most importantly I appreciate what their saying and their push to constantly be better!

If you haven't listened to The REALationships podcast where you been? This is the best advice you can get and the most entertaining as well. What are you waiting for LISTEN!

I found your realationship podcast page on my popular page on Instagram. The episode was discussing what to call your in-laws. I watched the video and afterwards immediately opened my podcast app, subscribed and listened to the next five episodes at work. From the bottom of my heart I would like to thank you both. It has nothing to do with race or status because love is love, but thank you for being a POSITIVE example of beautiful black love. Not only are you educated and spiritual but you’re real. I love how you share your flaws and short comings. Showing us that we all go through things but with faith and a strong support system we can get through it. Please don’t stop posting! We need this type of content out in the world. Sadly as we get older, our strong support systems i.e (parents, uncles, aunts, and grandparents) are getting older as well. We are loosing them and we don’t have a lot of people out here that keep it real and teach like they use to. I just wanted to say that the time and effort that you put into your social media pages and podcast are appreciated. Thank you!

I am going through a hardship with my husband of 20 yrs, and I ran into a tik tok of your podcast. I have been listening and I thank god he put it in my direction you guys are amazing. I’m thinking positive.

I really love this podcast. I love this couple for sharing their beautiful story! So many experiences for such a young couple! So much realness! Y’all have shared so much with the world! I thank you for the vulnerability! Y’all are amazing! Life is hard most of time but we always got this! I’m rooting for y’all! Take care of the girls! ❤️Hope all is well! Trust the process!

Going on 5 years of marriage and I have to say I’ve learned so many different ways to communicate and to better not only myself but my relationship as a WHOLE. There’s always going to be those struggles but it’s all about how you push through it with good communication and to ultimately keep fighting for your marriage! I enjoy listening to these two! 🥰❤️

“If you do not change your mindset, the only thing that’s going to change is the year” this right here is what I needed, most times we don’t want to accept the fact that the relationship doesn’t serve us anymore but in order to win in life we must lose!! In a world where we have to deal with love/relationship, motherhood, health and spirituality issues daily we have to make sure we pure into us first in order to pour into others, also I love a platform where we can get opinions to reinforce or steer us back on track, love this guys!!

A very down to Earth married couple that is transparent and real about their relationship and daily lives. I love listening to their podcast and seeing their growth as a couple as well. Thank you for letting us see a glimpse of the love you have for one another !

Listening to this podcast it so insightful and helps me think about deeper concepts in my relationship. It’s nice hearing this advice from such a thriving couple and people that really care about love and the well being of others. This is definitely the podcast to listen to that will help you go grow within yourself and your relationship!!❤️

Devon & Asha still are “real” life couple goals. When they say they are BRING THE REAL BACK TO RELATIONSHIPS they literally mean it. This will be my husband’s and I 5th year of marriage and no it hasn’t been all peaches & cream as the two of our have already mentioned. There will be many hiccups and circumstances that may be questionable in a relationship. However, keeping God in the midst & keeping it REAL is what makes it last. We are currently participating for the 2year in the 28 days of real love challenge. Idk what it is about the challenge but hopefully it ends with a lil Ari running around lol Thanks again for all videos, tips, suggestions, comments, Bible study, fitness motivation and all that the two of u provide to help keep our relationships/lives REAL!!!

Very Relatable couple giving us the real talk to sustain a healthy loving positive relationship! ❤️. Love love love

I have been listening to this podcast for almost a year now and their advice and wisdom is nothing but real! They even have helped me realize things about myself in a relationship! It’s literally free couseling!!!!!!!!!! And they cover so many topics and senerios. I support them and admire their love for one another because it’s so authentic and relatable. I try to put everyone onto this show because you can def see how real they keep it and gain something from it.

Very VERY real life situations that occur with most couples. Very transparent and honest. The topics pertain to BOTH men and women and their roles within the relationship. Very relatable and REAL. Not just giving advice but actually practicing what they preach! Definitely check it out with your partner 💙❤️

This podcast is so natural, and true and relatable. Love, love love.