Lola Phoenix’s podcast is an excellent supplement to their book, “The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy.” They help readers and listeners to feel seen and understood, and to see their challenges as something they can get through. They offer a refreshing mix of skepticism, curiosity, caring, and hope.

I adore the podcast! I just wish the episodes were longer, cause they’re so good! ✨

Lola has a wealth of experience. I’ve followed some her work now for some years ( I think least 7). Really at the forefront of helping people carve out honest passionate living in their relationships. So glad to have stumbled across your views when I did.

Finding this podcast has changed the way I think about non monogamy in such a positive and helpful way. I would go as far to say, it’s changed my life for the better. And that’s just not hyperbole! Keep up the fantastic work! I appreciate you.

Your work!!

Lola, thank you. Your podcast and columns are helping me feel comfortable and ready to become non monogamous. I have mental health issues and that’s been difficult to manage along with becoming non monogamous. You have great insight and empathy while also being firm and blunt. I hope you’ll continue this work for many years to come! I recommend this podcast for anyone starting ENM or is curious about ethical non-monogamy/polyamory.

I find your insights so wise and extremely helpful. I absolutely adore listening to these episodes and reading your column. You dispel so many myths about non monogamy and show people that having problems/ difficult emotions in non monogamous relationships doesn’t have to lead to switching to monogamy. Thank you Lola for gracing the world with your perspectives and ideas. You are one in a million!

I absolutely love this podcast. I wish there were more polyamory podcasts like yours because most of the one I’ve found are really boring and not as insightful as yours!